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Last call at Tom's



Tom's Tavern in Wrentham closed Sunday night and will be auctioned next week. (Staff photo by Mark Stockwell)




Landmark bar shuts its doors for good, leaving 25 out of work
WRENTHAM - Tom's Tavern, a long-running and popular drinking and eating establishment, has shut its doors, with an auction of the property scheduled for next week.

The Shears Street sports bar/restaurant closed abruptly Sunday night at midnight, owner Tom Gianfrancesco confirmed Monday night.

"It's closed," Gianfrancesco said of the business he had run for just under three decades.

It wasn't the economy that has done the business in - Gianfrancesco says business has remained steady - but financial problems that stemmed from a failed sale back in 2004, he said.

"We almost had a sale complete," Gianfrancesco said.
Tom's Tavern on Shear Street in Wrentham. (Staff photo by Mark Stockwell)
During that pending sale that involved a verbal purchase and sales agreement, Gianfrancesco actually left for six months, but then returned to oversee the businesss that he said had by that time fallen into deep debt.

The bar/restaurant ended up in bankruptcy the next year and never was able to get back on solid financial footing despite a payment plan, Gianfrancesco said, adding Tom's Tavern did emerge from bankruptcy.

"It is my fault. It is on my shoulders. I take that responsibility," he said.

Having been Chapter 11 "did ruin our credit ability," the owner said of borrowing. "There was nowhere else to turn to."

The past few months he said he had been trying to find an investor or partner, but the sour economy had made it difficult for many.

"We had a couple of folks, but the economy hit them," Gianfrancesco said.

His son "TJ," who along with his other children had worked at Tom's Tavern, was going to take over the business in recent years but has since opened up a restaurant at the site of the former James Roadside Cafe near Franklin.

"We got to where we are at now," Gianfrancesco said. "It is just time. We have reached the end of the rope and there were no more safety nets."

The auction is scheduled for Tuesday, March 31, at the tavern.

"We are going to see if we can do something at the auction," Gianfrancesco said, adding "that is just speculation right now."
About 25 employees are out of work for now.

"I kept everybody pretty much in the loop what was going on," Gianfrancesco said.

There was a send-off party two Sundays ago. "It was a combined St. Patrick's Day party. I called it a happy trails party," Gianfrancesco said.

The Wrentham resident said he pretty much knew he would have to give up the business last year. "I knew about it last year, but the goal was to get through Thanksgiving, and do some charity work, and Christmas. Then it was the Super Bowl."

Tom's Tavern delivered holiday meals to the less fortunate for years.

The business also sponsored popular road races besides donating to many causes over the years.

"I am just hoping another business in town might step up to the plate and do some of the charity work. We did a lot with the food pantry," Gianfrancesco said.

The establishment went from a small bar serving limited food with a few dozen seats to an expanded building and restaurant.

"It was just a neighborhood beer-and-shot place," Gianfrancesco recalled of when he took over, having worked at the bar previously. "We evolved from that to an institution. It took a lot of hard work and sacrifice. We have a lot to reminisce about.

"All good things come to an end. I am walking out with my head held high. We have done a lot of good things for the community, and the community has done a lot of nice things for us," Gianfrancesco added. "I met a lot of nice people. The staff has been super. It is a sad day but another chapter."

 


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jose21 wrote on Apr 6, 2009 2:32 PM:

" This is good stuff... "

mariesaallen1 wrote on Apr 5, 2009 7:22 PM:

" screw the haters.. i love u tom.. and i love your family.. i love everything youve done for not only for me and my family (and uncle buddha passed) but for the community.. Wrentham wont be the same with out the tavern.. :(.. "

mariesaallen1 wrote on Apr 5, 2009 7:22 PM:

" screw the haters.. i love u tom.. and i love your family.. i love everything youve done for not only for me and my family (and uncle buddha passed) but for the community.. Wrentham wont be the same with out the tavern.. :).. "

cingularmASShealth wrote on Apr 5, 2009 3:19 PM:

" Tom's Tavern was my second home and I don't drink. It's not about drinking.... it's about seeing the people you love and enjoying good times with your friends and family. You people should prob drink more to take the edge off your disgusting bitter lame attitudes.... "

kris gee wrote on Apr 5, 2009 11:55 AM:

" Well Dad, I'm sorry to say that your request for our dear friend nextel will fall upon deaf ears. I have asked several times, without any response. It is always easier for a coward to cast stones as long as you have no idea who it is. As for you Nextel why don't you take a look at bring Toms back site, and if it's possible for your pea brain to calculate the ratios of haters, and people that love us! I honestly can't believe that your life is so pathetic that you have nothing better to do but continue to spread your hate! "

whitehair wrote on Apr 5, 2009 11:38 AM:

" oh - one more thing....
Nextelbluecross (and co.), please reconsider involving Tom's personal family matters in your blog. It's not your or anyone's place to exploit another family's circumstance. Unless you are without fault, you have no right to judge. "

whitehair wrote on Apr 5, 2009 11:01 AM:

" CoachBarnett - your blogs have a way of wiping out all the negativity from previous bloggers. Tom DID do alot for the community without expecting anything in return. Thank you coachbarnett for your kind words and amazing gratitude. "

coachbarnett wrote on Apr 5, 2009 9:36 AM:

" I said it earlier, I'll say it again.

What I'll always remember about Tom is that he was always there for local organizations. Whenever I went to him to ask for some help with something for King Philip Youth Football, it was ALWAYS "whatever you need" - whether gift certificates to raffle off, or food for a fundraising event. Tom often came to us to offer help without being asked, and I know from my involvement with other youth organizations that he was always there for them as well.

My lasting memory of Tom will not be at the tavern (where he always went out of his way to greet us enthusiastically when we had our coaches' meetings), but rather of him working his grill at our annual Special Olympics Pass, Punt and Kick event. Tom would come down every year, giving not only use of his grill but also his time, to help provide a barbecue lunch for close to 100 Special Olympics athletes, their families, and the football players and cheerleaders of KPYF. Every year the lunch was a highlight of the event for the parents of the Special Olympians, watching their children sit side by side with their new friends, and Tom was a big part of making that happen.

Tom, thank you again for all the help over the years. Your commitment to the youth organizations of our community shows your true character, and I'll always be proud to call you a friend. "

TOMMYG@08 wrote on Apr 5, 2009 8:58 AM:

" Okay folks let stop the bashing please.
-OR- Identify yourself and email me direct @ sales@tomstavern.com -OR- you may decide to keep going and be anonymous hiding behind the blog.I have a pretty good idea who you are and it doesn't matter to me but respect my familily. If you decide to reveal yourself fire off and email. To our supporters a huge "Thank YOU!"

Howard Jahlykahkik wrote on Apr 1, 2009 8:39 PM:
" Tom you are a class act. You took a dump biker bar and made it a place that one could take their family for a meal. Thanks for all you've done to support this town of ours. God Bless " "

kris gee wrote on Apr 4, 2009 12:27 PM:

" Would you please spread your poison elsewhere! You people are disgusting! "

nextelbluecross wrote on Apr 4, 2009 10:07 AM:

" I would have to agree with Goodman- if a Tavern is your second home...you might want to check out an AA meeting "

goodman wrote on Apr 4, 2009 8:10 AM:

" if a tavern was ur second home, then maybe you need to get a life. stop sitting in a bar and drinking your life away. "

anothertgvictim wrote on Apr 4, 2009 6:21 AM:

" Respect? How much respect did this man have for all the people he screwed? Its a free country dear, that is why people can speak thier mind- "

mariesaallen1 wrote on Apr 3, 2009 9:53 PM:

" everyone gave up on reading all you peoples b.s. thats y so i stopped by to stand up for the man.. i'll defend him til the day i die.. his family.. and his business... the tavern was like a second home to a lot of people and you all need to keep your negative comments to yourself.. have some respect for others.. "

anothertgvictim wrote on Apr 3, 2009 9:42 PM:

" Look like the worshipers are not so much the majority anymore. The Tavern was a great place, its too bad its closed but frankly, it was only a matter of time the way Tom handled his business affairs and the way that he treated people. I for one, could care less about him and think that this town is better off without someone like that "

givemeabreakwillya wrote on Apr 3, 2009 8:26 PM:

" I love it- they are just coming out of the woodwork- tom is a jerk and deserves to have his life fall down around him. "

rcafatherof2 wrote on Apr 3, 2009 8:03 PM:

" Well then dont sit and read it marie-Tom is an as*&- a jerk- he screwed countless people- so get off your hight horse and maybe you should be concerned with "the man above" when Tom meets his maker- because it wont be pretty- Hero - my as*&^%- Great Guy- Yeah Right- in what world "

mariesaallen1 wrote on Apr 3, 2009 7:26 PM:

" Wow where do i start.. Lets start with the bashers.. First of there are many people up above you right now that are going to strike you dead for bashing tom and his business.. Do you really have no life to the point where you need to put others down.. Toms Tavern has been a part of many peoples lives including my own.. And you think toms an a$$hole newsflash pal we all are at some point in time and if he was a dick to you i can see why.. .. And why do you care if he fired TJ it's his son.. if i worked for my dad hed probably fire me everyday to.. He loves his family.. ALL OF THEM.. and he loves all of us like a part of his family.. so i will not sit here and read an article letting you bash a great person.. We all make mistakes we all make some wrong decisions.. guess what its life.. so why dont you get one and shut the h*ll up.. Leave his family alone and keep your bad comments to yourself.. Didnt your mom ever tell you that.. NO.. well now i just did.. I love you tom.. you are an amazing man a great father and a great over all person.. and to all of your kids dont worry about these aholes.. they apparently have issues and didnt come with a mute button unfortunetly.Love you all.. TOM TAVERN PRIDE.. AND TOMS THE MAN! "

cingulARmasshealth wrote on Apr 3, 2009 2:04 PM:

" Drive fast....see ya never...I am SO over this "

nextelbluecross wrote on Apr 3, 2009 1:48 PM:

" Before you begin your spelling bee- Typo on my last post FANTASY is the correct spelling- Unlike "another poster" who spelled it FANTACY...over and out!! Remember one thing- what goes around, comes around. I am SO done with this- "

nextelbluecross wrote on Apr 3, 2009 10:40 AM:

" My factasy world? I think not- You are completly off base and uninformed. If Tom broke down and went to TJ's wedding, well thats good. Only stating what I know to be true, he wasn't going to go. And seeing that you admit he "convinced" you to go only proves my point. I have PERSONALLY suffered financial loss and hardship becuase of Tom. So don't cast stones when you have NO IDEA what he has put me through. And dont talk to me like I am a 2 year old. I am a grown man and I know whats what.. Whats the matter, didn't you read the post by bruinspats fan..he too has apparently seen the real Tom. I have nothing further to say, other than to repeat, DO NOT bash me when you know nothing of the personal financial losses I have incurred due to your Father. And the Continued financial losses I will continue to incur. Period. So bitter and angry, you bet I am. "

kbtoystorefleetbank wrote on Apr 3, 2009 9:15 AM:

" You must be kidding me! You, being nextel are still going strong. You really need to get a hobby! Is the news in the Sun Chronicle slow this week? Once again you are wrong about the self made up facts you have conger ed up in your fantasy world. I certainly don't need to defend Tom. However, he was there at TJs wedding. Tom was also the person that convinced me to go. What you don't know, nor do you deserve to know is the reality of what was really going on. All you see is the surface problems. Yes, Tom could be a hard person to work for, but that is why the Tavern was so successful for 30 years! Have you ever ran a restaurant? I know you can ask anyone! If times were hard, if there was a tragedy, or someone was down and out, Regardless of the state of the relationship with Tom. He would drop everything and be there for that person. Please stop casting stones on issues you know nothing about. Also, there is NO NEED to feel bad for the "KIDS" WE ARE THE LUCKIEST KIDS TO HAVE TOM AS OUR FATHER! He has taught us more in the past years, than most parents are able to teach their children in a life time! So save your pity for the next newspaper story! "

nextelbluecross wrote on Apr 3, 2009 5:23 AM:

" Thanks Bruinspatsfan. Nice to see someone else step up to the plate and pointout what a jerk Tom is. I bet 85% of the worshipers on here know what Bruinspatsfan says to be true. He DID Fire TJ evey other week, (you all know that if you worked there or are related to him) He disowned TJ when he bought the Anvil and didn't even go to his own kids wedding because he couldn't get out of the way of his own ego!! I too feel bad for his kids, I know they don't want to hear that, or the negative things about thier Father, but deep down, they know its true too. He treated people like crap, and yes, he is a jerk , he had a horrible temper and is a very volatile individual. Plain and simple. "

bruinspatsfan wrote on Apr 2, 2009 5:54 PM:

" I am sorry to hear that Tom's closed. I had a lot of good nights there. Good luck to TJ with his new place, I've been in there a few times and had really good food. As for Tom, I couldn't be happier to see this happen to him. He is a jerk, treated people like crap and he deserves it. Again, I feel bad for his children and employees, but I felt just as bad that they had to work for him. Its funny to hear Tom endorse TJ's place, he used to fire him every other week when he worked at Toms's. Stick to security. "

MarkJuliano wrote on Mar 30, 2009 6:42 PM:

" Best of luck Tom. I hope you find a way to reopen. No one could operate a business for 30 years in the same place if they didn't treat people well. Owning and operating a small business is one of the most difficult things to do. 90 percent don't make it through the first year. You and your family always made me and my family feel welcome and appreciated. Looks like I will be spending Wednesday nights at the Black Rock. Everybody has enemies it looks like you only have one thats pretty good. God Bless "

goodman wrote on Mar 30, 2009 9:53 AM:

" FYI - it's throne, not thrown. dummies. "

kbtoystorefleetbank wrote on Mar 30, 2009 9:40 AM:

" I doubt very much you have any idea as to what your running your mouth about! I don't need to get any facts! Once again I will remind you that the financial status of Tom, or the Tavern is non of your business. Why do you think it is your place to announce the finances of others. What your saying ,true or not, is not for you to announce! "

rcafatherof2 wrote on Mar 30, 2009 9:31 AM:

" Kaybetoystore- how would know what I know??? Your sadly mistaken, becuase I do know, I know all about it- so I am not sitting on my thrown shooting out "uninformed" info, Maybe you dont know the specifics, So maybe you should think before you speak "

gingersnap wrote on Mar 30, 2009 9:00 AM:

" How did a feel good article, somehow turn into a bashing? As usual the negative people who write here, have to bring politics into this.

Sorry to see you close, I don't know Tom or his family, and I'm saddened that you had to shut your doors. I am also saddened that there are people in our community that can't read an article for what it contains, instead have to bring in gossip and acusations of their own to somehow make some sort of pointless statement. Karma's a "B#@!^" they say...... Negative, and disrespectful people need to find a hobby. "

kbtoystorefleetbank wrote on Mar 30, 2009 7:57 AM:

" Dear rcafather of 2, it must be nice to sit on your thrown and think you know all the answers! How would you know any of the circumstances that lead to this point? You don't so before you start reporting your version, maybe you should get the facts. Better yet maybe someone else money issues are not yours, or anyone else's business at all. "

rcafatherof2 wrote on Mar 30, 2009 7:18 AM:

" When you don't pay the IRS, and you make arrangements to pay on a plan..and you don't live up to it...what do you think is going to happen??? All you people that think someone got shafted here....wake up will you. It's unfortunate, yes, but it is also reality. "

ltlb wrote on Mar 29, 2009 9:34 PM:

" I could not have said it better kbtoystorefleetbank!!!! It is always the small businesses that get the short end of the stick!!! "

kbtoystorefleetbank wrote on Mar 29, 2009 9:31 PM:

" No one said give the Tavern money...Only that, why give grief to a small business? Give every chance possible to make things right! "

rcafatherof2 wrote on Mar 29, 2009 6:14 PM:

" "Sketchy Details..at best"..couldn't have said it better. Your right, the Government is to blame, they should have given Tom the $ he needed to pick up the pieces. What kind of country is this anyway...give me a break "

kbtoystorefleetbank wrote on Mar 29, 2009 4:44 PM:

" Honestly, you don't need to hear the details of the (maybe) buyer. The details are sketchy at best! Not to mention, it really doesn't matter at this point. This has nothing to do with freedom of speech. Please give me a break! Do us all a favor and exercise the 5th! This is about a family that needs to stick together and repel all the negativity some have needed to express! I personally think it's disgusting that anyone would have a bad thing to say at this point! What more do you want? Tom lost his whole life's work, the kids lost their jobs, 20 something others are jobless. Maybe you should all take this energy and put it toward our economy. Try to figure out why it is companies are getting 100s of billions in bail outs, when less than 1% of that would have saved the Tavern. Why bail out these idiots that take bonuses that were worth more than what was owed! "

rcafatherof2 wrote on Mar 29, 2009 9:59 AM:

" I don't think anyone is condemming Tom's Kids. I would love to hear from the buyer of the Tavern back on 04 and hear the real story about what happened there.... There are lots of people who know that truth..and it isn't what Mr Gianfrancesco tells everyone. Again,,,,no reflection on his kids or the success of the Tavern. Only the aftermath that is left behind/ "

whatajoke wrote on Mar 29, 2009 9:45 AM:

" No need to attack anyone when they voice thier opinion/ or knowledge of the truth of it all.
Its called Freedom of speech..Don't we live in USA? "

kbtoystorefleetbank wrote on Mar 28, 2009 11:26 PM:

" No need Nextel, to wish children well! We all come in one pretty little package! Your comments have been upseting to both Tom, and his children! The life of living up to all expectations is over. "

Staceyg wrote on Mar 28, 2009 8:05 PM:

" nextelbluecross, I think our family would rather you not wish anything for us. Thank you to everyone that has supported us all of these years! And, for those who have negative things to say, no one has the perfect family and everyone has problems...Why dont some of you step into our shoes...How would you like it if someone hung your dirty laundry up for everyone to make comments about? "

nextelbluecross wrote on Mar 28, 2009 7:50 PM:

" Nice to see a few more people step up and tell it like it is- I too wish his kids well "

rcafatherof2 wrote on Mar 28, 2009 12:13 PM:

" I must say I have followed this blog since it started, and it is very sad that Tom's is closing, Such a great place to have fun, have a few beers...watch a game. 30 Years- Wow thats along time. That being said, it is also refreshing to see at least a few have enough gumption to really tell the truth about it. I wish his children well . "

tom g wrote on Mar 28, 2009 10:26 AM:

" My final blog to, Mr whatajoke I made every possible deal I could with the US trustee even bringing in a well healed investor. All my attempts to rescue this situation were declined. Blame the government for the lack of cooperation they'd rather close us down and put 25 good folks out of work. yes I take the blame other circumstances were involved. I worked 7 days a week, missed holidays, family events and sacraficed much in my 30 years. i resent your implication. "

kris gee wrote on Mar 28, 2009 9:46 AM:

" This will be my final blog. We obviously can't fight the world regarding the recent events surrounding Tom's Tavern. Even though I would like to take each and everyone of you one in a debate. I find it absolutely appalling that the so called "good" people of Wrentham could be so cruel! It's strange how some people think they know so many of the facts, when in reality they are clueless. We as a family worked very hard for many years. Our dad took what was once an unwanted bar, and turned it into a family friendly restaurant. Sure I'm sure mistakes were made here and there. Who doesn't make mistakes? Aside from those who are so eager to judge in this forum. Over the years we have made more friends than enemies. We had an incredible run. We will all move on, and this will be forgotten to most. However we will walk away with our great family, second tavern family, and all our great memories. So please respect our family, and our friends and stop with the finger pointing, and name calling. Our family is trying to cope with a devastating life change, so please let us do so in peace. Thank you to all the overwhelming love, and support we have seen from our friends! It really does make a difference to hear from happy people. "

whatajoke wrote on Mar 28, 2009 8:34 AM:

" I think Goodman is right- you should have stopped posting Tom a long time ago- you sound bitter and arraogant.... and for those of us who know your true colors- I applaud Nestelbluecross for obviously having his # and calling him on it. I am sure he has great kids,,, and you have to feel bad for them, but this man has left a wake of victims in his bad business practices. Leaving behind debt that will never have to be repaid becuase this illustrious country of ours allows Bankrucpy and people can just walk away from 100's of thousands of dollars of debt. Disgraceful in my opinion. Loved the Tavern, sad to see it close but it was only a matter of time. We Will miss it, great food, great people for the most part. so it is sad it closed, but there is no one to blame for that except Mr Gianfancesco "

ltlb wrote on Mar 27, 2009 5:04 PM:

" TJ learned everything he knows from his dad....TOM. The Black Rock will "ROCK" because he was taught how to run a business and yes he can cook a heck of a dish! Runs in the family actually. I am sure Tom is proud of his sons accomplishments. I just pray that TJ does not have to take this unbelievable slander and outrageous blogs if his business falls apart for whatever reasons from Nextelbluecross or anyone else for that matter. Just totally juvenile and rude! "

coachbarnett wrote on Mar 27, 2009 2:58 PM:

" Whenever we asked for help, Tom was there. Whether it was bringing down his grill and cooking for our Special Olympics event, or food for a fundraising event we were running, Tom was always there for King Philip Youth Football.

Whenever we had to have a coaches meeting, Tom's was the venue of choice. We were always welcomed with genuine fondness by Tom.

Tom, thanks for all the support over the years. I wish things could have worked out differently, and I hope whoever takes over the site has the same sense of commitment to the community that you had. "

goodman wrote on Mar 27, 2009 2:39 PM:

" Tom you should have stopped a few posts ago. Now you're just making yourself sound bitter and ignorant. "

tom g wrote on Mar 27, 2009 2:28 PM:

" Ad in todays Sun Chronicle announcing a new Seafood Capitol Of The World!!! Nope still Wrentham at my son's place the Black Rock Cafe where honesty and integrity didn't fall far from the tree. Anyone else welcoming customers from the Tavern is just an ignorant opportunist preying on anothers misfortune. "

tom g wrote on Mar 27, 2009 2:06 PM:

" Hey sorry nextelbluecross.....guess I couldn't drink enough to make you # 10 and produce # 13 that's why you're so bitter. Why don't you go over to Walpole State prison perhaps a one eyed con will get discharged and fullfill your fantacy. Sorry kids violated my high road policy but couldn't resist
te-he-he...! Hey Jen dot-dot-dot "

ltlb wrote on Mar 27, 2009 12:23 PM:

" How easy it is for angry disturbed people to just gravitate to someone elses misfortune. That person or person's being Nextelbluecross. I feel sorry for you. You obviously have NO LIFE and absolutely no clue what you are talking about! You might want to look deeply into the saying "Walk a mile in my shoes and then comment" But then again after reading your sick blogs, I do not think you have the intelligence to even filter that through your pea brain! I truly hope that you find compassion and rid yourself of whatever anger possesses you to be so mean before it comes back and BITES you in the BUTT!!!. With that said, Tom, C0-workers, family and friends. Hold your heads high and remember the good times. You need not justify yourselves to anyone. You all know what you did and you did it WELL. God Bless you all!! Tom's will be missed. "

harlockman wrote on Mar 27, 2009 10:57 AM:

" btw, somebody tell fitzy to go to bed earlier; did you see he posted at 2 in the morning?!! what is he, a back door man? haha got ya fitz! "

harlockman wrote on Mar 27, 2009 10:53 AM:

" hi everyone! glad to see all like this place so much. one dissenter out of lots of fans; not so bad.
i have been going to this establishment for fifty years or more, so i know it well! was never a regular patron, just would stop in for a few cold ones and lately, the best food and service i can think of anywhere in the country! always fast and good.
when i remember what is was, the "shamrock", and what tom did to build this place, i am impressed. i know he lived the business, it was his life. the passion to build this fine business is a good thing. i congratulate him for a job well done!
thanks tom, ~don "

kris gee wrote on Mar 27, 2009 9:14 AM:

" You are absolutely the lowest form of life. One day, you may have something life altering happen to you or someone in your family. I hope that you are treated with the same attitude that you have with us. Sad that you are so angry. Obviously you can see you are the minority in your vengeful feelings! Whats the matter nextel? Where you not the cool kid in school, and you are carrying it over to adulthood? Did no one what to talk to you at the tavern? I will remind you again to seek professional help. We would all love if you could stop hiding behind your silly name. Quit being such a coward and let us know who this is. Not that we don't already know...Right? Boy, how would all feel to know who this really is? Just a matter of time...See ya soon... "

BrianFitzgerald wrote on Mar 27, 2009 2:26 AM:

" nextelpussy throw your name out there so we can find out who you are!!!! "

BrianFitzgerald wrote on Mar 27, 2009 2:06 AM:

" I've been going to Tons Tavern for years,I've had the best years of my life at this place. The fact that this place is closed is a tragedy. I coudn't ever emagine this happening to a place like this.TOM'S was the CHEERS of Wrentham!!! I could go to Toms any day and see all of my friends..... any day, no doubt.I have to say i love everyone that worked there,TJ, Elyse,Jenn, Bundy, Duncan, I love all you all you guys! Whatever the case may be the fact remains the same .... TOMS was the place to be, SUNDAY FUNDAY with RAY,fun s*#*.F*#! all you haters. Toms was the best. Never had a bad time there, NEVER!! I'm gonna miss al of you. I loveyou guys!! "

cingularmasshealth wrote on Mar 27, 2009 12:31 AM:

" Nextelbluecross* I hope karma rots every single tooth in your mouth. After that happens, sew it shut. "

tom g wrote on Mar 26, 2009 11:00 PM:

" tom g wrote on Mar 26, 2009 10:34 PM:

" Gee wish I had that many wives!! As a parent I'm proud of every one of my children. As a business owner I'm proud of our accomplishments. I'm proud to have shared my life with so many wonderful folks who made my job easy. Made a few mistakes along the way but always in a forward motion. Always reaching out to help our fellow man, women & children. I keep telling the kids take the high road & don't be influenced by negative statements. We started proud we leave proud. Thanks everybody & God Bless. Nextelbluecross hope the tooth gets better!! "



nextelbluecross wrote on Mar 26, 2009 6:57 PM:

" me too, like an abcess tooth! Its a beautiful day "



botafogo1 wrote on Mar 25, 2009 6:17 PM:

" Ill miss that place " "

publius wrote on Mar 26, 2009 3:28 PM:

" To cingularmasshealth: That was my point, all families are flawed. The Gianfrancesco's dirty laundry was out in public more so than others because of the nature of their business, coupled with it being a family business.

They, meaning, Kristen Jen, TJ, Elyse, Stacey, and all of the others, had lived under a microspoe all of their lives.

They are good people who deserve better.

I guess I didn't say it clearly enough. "

cingularmasshealth wrote on Mar 26, 2009 1:57 PM:

" Flawed? Who's family isn't "flawed"? "

publius wrote on Mar 26, 2009 1:35 PM:

" It's kind of crappy that this nextel person is making these statements. Part of owning a family business like Tom's, with many family members working there, out in the public eye, is people know your business.

The Gianfrancesco's are flawed, and I had more than my fair share of dealings with several of them. But in the end, now that Tom's is done, I am glad I know them.

You can go to Chili's or the 99 and wait for bad service, or you can walk into Tom's and have you drink in your hand before you take your coat off.

I'll take the flaws of Tom and his kids over a corporate bartender any day.

If you people want to keep the traditions going, eat some great food, and have some laughs, go up the street and visit TJ and Kendra at The Black Rock!!

Or you can go to Chili's or Joe's American Bar and Grill, and be served by strangers and send your money to Boston or wherever. "

cingularmasshealth wrote on Mar 26, 2009 1:12 PM:

" Thanks gingersnap!! we are your number 1 fans!! Thanks for your support. and your hair looks fabby whitehair!! knock it off. "

gingersnap wrote on Mar 26, 2009 12:29 PM:

" Perfectly said, all of the postings here are about the Tavern, the fun times, the memories, and the contributions that Tom has done for the community. You have one moron, who was probably picked on in school, has low self esteem, probably no job himself due to his lack of education, and feels the need to bash Tom's. ***that's you, nextelbluecross***
Today I am sure you have found a new article to bash and rip insults at.

I do not know his children, nor do I need to know how many he's had, which to me is irrelivant. The place was a cool hangout, food was great, and the staff was fun. End of story. I'll be back again if it opens up.

PS hahahahaha, to cingularmasshealth, great username, great comment. "

tyler ring wrote on Mar 26, 2009 8:42 AM:

" to nextel blue cross... i am one of those mis- guided minors you speak of... and i have a question... what are you hiding that you cant leave your name... your probly some prize too... your a waste of life... go ahead tell people something they dont know about me already too... moron "

kbtoystorefleetbank wrote on Mar 26, 2009 8:18 AM:

" As with most people, I am going to miss Toms Tavern. What I wont miss are these misguided morons. Yes that would be you nextelbluecross. "

whitehair wrote on Mar 26, 2009 7:43 AM:

" Wouldn't the phrase "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all?" be appropriate here? NextelBluecross - how can you consider kicking a man when he is already down? Are you that cruel that you feel the need to criticize, degrade, and humiliate a good man who is already suffering from the loss of his 30 year old business? Are you that vindictive that you have to involve his children in your "rant"? Your blog was completely inapropriate and please - for the sake of all the readers keep your petty opinion and trashy gossip for your dinner table.
Thank you Tom and family for an amazing 30 years. You have left a legacy and will never be forgotten.
God Bless "

ETHANDUNBAR wrote on Mar 26, 2009 1:46 AM:

" tom's was one of the greatest bars in wrentham I came home from the Marines to spend my 21st birthday there. I have so many great meneries from there from there from ray on keroke sundays, and the warthogs drinking me under the table ( skrew you bob, lenny, and hedlie) and the beutiful elyse serving us a beer and a smile your tavern will be mist and peice of history has ended in wrentham. thank you Tom's Tavern for all the memories "

kris gee wrote on Mar 26, 2009 12:28 AM:

" Tom's Tavern...Wow I was just lying in bed thinking of all days past. I just can't believe how time flies. When I first started working at the club aka Tavern. Only called club cuz my mom didn't approve of children being in a bar even during the day. I started as a quarter roller. My dad had a few video games that generated what seemed to me at the time as millions of $$. I rolled all those millions with a barbaric bright orange quarter roller. I was allowed to keep what ever was not enough to make a 10.00 roll. Only to put it all back into those machines. At the time Steph was the bartender, and oh did I drive her crazy begging for more quarters, and cherries. As time went on, I was able to graduate to full time tuna maker, then shrimp peeler. All the while making great friends, and a second family. We have seen our share of births, such as my sister Elyse. I took some time off from tuna, and shrimp to help babysit her in her younger years. Then Stacey, wait now Tim! Okay I'm going back to the easy job of tuna and shrimp. Before our very eyes the tavern went from Club to restaurant. We went from children, to having our own. Dad went from Dad to grandpa, and tuna, went from tuna to lazy man lobster. Where has all the time gone? "

cingularmasshealth wrote on Mar 26, 2009 12:08 AM:

" P.S. My username keeps it real. "

cingularmasshealth wrote on Mar 26, 2009 12:07 AM:

" Tom's Tavern spelling bee.


Teacher "Please spell constantly"

Nextelbluecross "C...O...N...S...T...A...T...L...Y"

Teacher "I'm sorry that is incorrect"

Tom's Tavern "C...O...N...S...T...A...N...T...L...Y"

and now you know... "

Staceyg wrote on Mar 25, 2009 11:21 PM:

" I think "nextelbluecross" has NO idea what he is talking about and I agree 110 percent with my sisters! I love all of you! I wouldnt be the person today without the Tavern and all my family! "

kris gee wrote on Mar 25, 2009 10:53 PM:

" This message is to nextelbluecross. I would 1st like to offer you some friendly advice, Perhaps you should do yourself, your poor family, and anyone able to read your nonsense a favor. Find yourself a hobby, or maybe a few sessions with a very good Dr. After reading your complete lack of respect, and uneducated opinion of the recent misfortune of a very good man! I couldn't help but to set a person with oh so many opinions on all the community issues straight. You have no idea what has gone on through the years. The money issues are no more your concern, than mine. Perhaps a person who spends so much time in everyone else's business should take the time and find out the facts! Tom has done more for this community than most people do in a life time. Hmmm, wonder what you have done? Honestly, what has been done to you in 30 years? Feel free to do your happy dance. However, do it knowing that all 12, (8) of his children are never far behind!!! I will wrap up with saying...Dad we are all so proud of you, and teaching us how to deal with lives ups and downs, and how to deal with insignificant people like this. Love you, Kristen, Jennifer, Elyse................. "

kris gee wrote on Mar 25, 2009 10:26 PM:

" test "

nextelbluecross wrote on Mar 25, 2009 11:04 AM:

" Thanks for the update on Nextel and Blue Cross- Sure glad I dont work for either one!!! "

gingersnap wrote on Mar 25, 2009 9:25 AM:

" Speaking of "jokes".... **nextelbluecross** perfect name for 2 companies that also haven't been able to get their act together.... Nextel sold to Sprint, and Blue Cross has been corupt and raising my health insurance for years, never can I get ahead. I see why you are so bitter! "

nextelbluecross wrote on Mar 25, 2009 5:58 AM:

" "Hold your head up high"..are you kidding me. Apparently these people don't really know this man who let his Tavern go to auction due to non payment of taxes..but oh wait, he is a philanthropist and a victim...give me a break....everything this guy has done to so many for 30 years finally caught up with him. Ask yourselves this one question. How is it, that this Tavern was CONSTATLY PACKED with Patrons, a real money maker, and he loses it...where is all the $$ he made over the years??? "Good family man", he should be with 12 kids by 9 different mothers- Good Luck good , riddance, hope he leaves this town and never ever shows his face again.... Doing the dance of joy! Couldn't happen to a nicer guy...choke choke Wrentham will be a better place without this as you bloggers call him..."hero"...what a joke "

sunnie13 wrote on Mar 25, 2009 1:14 AM:

" I will miss Tom's...I had the best fresh Tuna steak there....everything was always great and friendly...sad. Best wishes to those losing their jobs and to all of us who will miss the food and service at Tom's "

eliot22 wrote on Mar 24, 2009 10:26 PM:

" This was definitely "the" place to go in Wrentham. The usual question in these situations is -what can we do with our unused Gift Cards? Would another area establishment come forward and honor them as Tom did with other restaurant certificates??? Perhaps the Sun Chronicle can look into this!! "

bobd427 wrote on Mar 24, 2009 8:46 PM:

" Tom, Sorry to see this happen. I am truly amazed at your kindness to those in need. You led by example and helped those less fortunate than you.
Thank you for all you have done and
you certainly may hold your head up high!! "

gingersnap wrote on Mar 24, 2009 3:20 PM:

" This is one place, I am sorry to see close down. Hopefully after auction, the new owners will reopen it and it'll thrive, like it has in the past. I will definately check it out, when it re-opens..... if it re-opens! :( "

nana banana wrote on Mar 24, 2009 11:07 AM:

" I hope its not closed for long, as the summers almost here. Maybe it'll be the same friendly neighborhood kind of place and not a yuppie coffee and scones dump. Keep those in Newton. "

chiman1111 wrote on Mar 24, 2009 10:52 AM:

" You guys had the best all you can eat lobster and crab in the whole east coast bar none!!!! It will be surely missed and thanks for all the unbuttoning of my jeans after the meals. My hat goes off to you TOM "

curmudgeon wrote on Mar 24, 2009 9:37 AM:

" I have great respect for a man like Tom, no he wasn't perfect, but he cared, he cared about his family, he cared about his customers and he cared most of all about the community. That caring and standing up for his rights sometimes got him in hot water, but it didn't lessen his principals.

When other nearby restaurants, closed their doors, Tom stepped up to help those with gift certificates to use them at his place, because he believed in helping others.

We see bail out and TARP funds going to big business when in fact it's little businesses like this all over America that need help, by the time money becomes available to them there will be none left.

it would have been nice to see, for example one tenth of one hundred percent in AIG bonus money come his way, and come the way of some of the other local business that are struggling as well.

He is being forced to close by the IRS, as he fell behind in his payment plan, and they add penalties and interest, in other words they let you dig a hole and than throw dirt on top of you. There is no compassion, for small business at all!

Tom you and your family will be truly missed, I hope your 25 employees are able to find something, openings are far and few now.

Godspeed, friend. "